“Remember that naming people and objects is a magical art.”
~Lerner and Lerner, Inner Child Cards: A Journey into Fairy Tales, Myth and Nature
I am so hesitant to do so because what if I choose the wrong name for him? Or what if I choose the proper name in the moment, but then later on the name needs to be changed? If I call him Father now, I can never call him Lover in the future. But I Love him. Why wouldn’t I want him as such?
I think that perhaps I am devoting too much energy to this project.